Celebrating New Year's Eve in
style, includes proper etiquette.
“It’s New Year’s Eve and
everybody is celebrating!”
That may be true in some sense of the word, but
are they celebrating the way that you do? Not necessarily, as people tend to
celebrate special occasions in style, but differently.
With that in
mind, here are some New Year’s Eve etiquette tips.
Focus on your own New Year’s
Eve celebration, not that of others. Socialize with them graciously, but
do not force anyone to engage in your celebration, as it may not be appropriate
for their lifestyle. If you insist, they may agree to celebrate with you, even
though they would prefer to spend their time with someone else or somewhere
else. It may not be fun for them or for you.
Plan to spend New Year’s
evening with close family and friends, those who you know and can trust. When
you know the people you are with, you are normally aware of how they behave in different
circumstances. They also know how you behave and what they expect of you. The celebration
and general lifestyle will likely be similar to theirs.
Avoid going to crowded places, where
people may transmit infectious diseases to you and others. No one wants to
start the year 2011, with an infection. If you are ill, stay at home and
celebrate there. No one has to go out to celebrate New Year’s Eve. Enjoy a good
movie or dvd instead. If you do not feel well, go to bed early. You can
celebrate on New Year’s Day in style, the next day or whenever you feel better.
Remember that New Year’s Eve
celebrations are personal and everyone makes some kind of New Year’s Eve
resolutions. These may include life style changes with regard to diet and use
or abuse of nicotine, alcohol or drugs. Encourage others to keep their
resolutions and make a point of keeping yours. Remember that others may not
want to listen to your whole list of New Year’s Eve resolutions, at a
party.
Be careful what you do. You
life might be endangered by something that you or others engage in, at a New
Year’s Eve celebration. Make your personal safety, as well as that of others,
your priority, particularly when you are heading home after the
celebration. Make certain that you have a designated driver, someone who will
not be drinking.
Be polite and sensitive to the
needs of others, regardless of who they are or what they may have done in the
past. Love of one another is always important. Remember that not everyone has
the same cultural beliefs or customs. Make certain that what you say and do is
socially, religiously and politically correct.
Do not fight, argue, embarrass
or intimidate others at a New Year’s Eve party. A celebration is supposed to be
fun for everyone, not a get-together where people abuse one another. Always
use appropriate language with everyone.
Maintain moderation as your
guideline with respect to what you eat or drink. No one enjoys watching a glutton or someone who becomes inebriated at a New Year’s Eve party. Wear
mild scented perfume, so that it does not offend or overpower others.
Dress appropriately for your
New Year’s Eve celebration. Do not overdress. Keep track of your purse, coat
and boots, at all times. Be aware that there may be those present, who use
special occasions to steal watches, rings and purses. Know where your credit
cards are at all times. Make certain that your money is in a safe place.
Leaving them at home, might be a better idea.
If you have tickets for a New
Year’s Eve celebration, remember to take them with you. No one wants to arrive
at a party and not be able to enter, because they have forgotten their tickets.
If it is a house party, you might consider taking an appropriate gift for the
host.
Avoid inappropriate behavior
with other people’s partners. It could spoil their evening and yours. Enjoy the
person or people who you attend the party with instead.
When you leave the party, remember to thank your host, graciously. If necessary, apologize and leave the party early, particularly when stormy, winter weather is expected. You and others do not want to stranded on a highway somewhere.
With these suggestions in mind,
have a wonderful New Year’s Eve celebration, in style!
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